Am I depressed or just unhappy?

Truthfully, you are describing major stress! I don't care how much energy you have, there is only so much you can do well. And, at this point, grades should be numero uno! IF there is time left over after getting A's in cles, then other activities, well times, can be fine. BUT, not at the expense of grades and that job you talk about...if you need to save money, then the job is extremely important too. When you cannot live up to what you think you are expected to do, then the stress can lead to depression. You need to sit down and have a heart to heart with your parents. Tell them that their expectations as to activities is unrealistic, that you have to set priorities, and stick with them. You life and that black cloud will lift immediately. Good luck, GW