Menopause?

Not everyone goes through the change at the same time in their life. 43 does seem young but it is not unheard of. I might be tempted to change gynaecologists if that was the only response that I got. He is supposed to be in the know, and be able to help someone with problems. If he feels that he cannot help you then he should offer you some options like in other doctors. It may be best to go back to square one and see your family doctor and ask his advice and opinions. Then ask for the name of a different Gyn..